I Can’t Believe…

February 22, 2023

February 22, 20223

I can’t believe the last time I entered anything new to my Blog was on November 23, 2022. Wow! Let me think about it for a minute. It is not because I have stopped thinking, that is not going to happen. It is not because I am sad, because I am not. I am happier than I have ever been. It is not because I am old. I was old back in November too, and I love being old. So, what is going on? I think part of it is, not as many people are reading my Blog anymore. Maybe it is because I haven’t written a new one since November 23, 2022. Could it be MY inactivity has caused inactivity of my Blog? Wow that is an eye opener. Is it possible everyone is happy, and consequences are not interfering with people’s happiness anymore. Let me think. Maybe people want to figure out their own happiness. Of course, that is the way it is supposed to be, but how many people actually try to uncover their real essence? Right this minute how many people are really happy? I know nothing about what your happiness is or what your happiness could be? Absolutely no idea. You have to find your own happiness. There are no shortcuts no one else can tell you what makes you happy. What my Blog is about is pointing out circumstances that get in the way of your happiness or get in the way of finding your happiness. I deal with circumstances, and how to diffuse ones that might cause you sadness. I identify a problem that may occur and show you ways to possibly diffuse it. I have lived a very long time, I am now 75, and have had many circumstances interfere with my life. Well, they used to, but now I have found better ways to not let the real world upset MY REAL WORLD. For instance, I have stopped watching the news. The news can be overwhelming, and on the world front I am incapable of solving the world’s problems. What I can do, by changing myself, I can see circumstances in ways in which they do not destroy my happiness. Then I am a better person. I am able to improve my attitude, thereby making it possible for me to be better able to appreciate the world around me. As I have uncovered more love and happiness, I am enjoying more people, and more people are enjoying me. I can’t fix the world, but by fixing me, I can make my world a better world. I have always wanted to make the world better, but I had always overlooked by how changing my own perspective could change my world. Now I know I can change nothing but myself. Circumstances should not and cannot take over my everyday life. Sometimes things happen, and they have to be dealt with, but normal bothers do not have to be a bother to me. They do not have to be a bother to you either. For instance, maybe you get a flat tire on the way to work today. That is a bother. Well, fix it. Life happens. Maybe your baby is waking up in the middle of the night and wants to be fed or have its diaper changed. Deal with it. Aren’t you glad you have a baby? I mean AREN’T YOU GLAD YOU HAVE A BABY? Okay, so get up, your baby needs you. These are just two quick examples. Maybe circumstances ARE life. Figure your life out and you will find your happiness. You don’t have to reinvent the wheel at every turn. I have lived for many years, and yet, I am incredibly happy. I have found my happiness, by putting circumstances in their proper places. Maybe some of my Blog entries will sound familiar to you, and maybe you will see how something in your life is getting in your way. I only want to help you see that everything can and in the long run will always work out. Wait a minute. Maybe because I have not published any new Blogs since November 23, 2022 is why not as many people are reading it? Is it possible a light just went off in my brain? Wow I must continue to work on myself, SO I DO NOT create circumstances that get in my way. WOW! Hit me in the head with a rock. Have a super dooper day.

Granny-o